Is this soul connection or black magic?

I hear a voice whispering a guy's name in my ears anytime I go to sleep. this had happened over several days. I also see shadowy figures telling me that I love this guy only and no one else. Now I am deeply in love in this guy but he is playing hard to get. Before this I was ready to get on with my life. Now I cannot get him out of my mind --24/7; my solar plexus twitches often; I often get intense feeling of love for him around my heart area, etc. Is this a soul connection or black magic.